Stop Hiding Behind Your Bullshit

"Dude, seriously, what's the hold-up? It's time to either crap or get off the pot!"

That's the no-nonsense response I got from my friend, Jess when I mentioned I still hadn’t launched my coaching practice. Jess? She's about as subtle as a sledgehammer and twice as direct.  

And you know what? She hit the nail on the head. I'll admit it. I'd been stalling, hiding behind a mountain of excuses, and letting my fears run the show when it came to taking the leap with my coaching gig.

“What if nobody picks up what I’m putting down? What if nobody shows up? What if nobody gives a damn about discovering their inner badass? What if I go splat, face-first, into a steaming pile of...well, you know”

The "what ifs" just kept coming, like a relentless swarm of doubts buzzing in my head.

Brené Brown came in hot with this concept she calls FFT — Fucking First Time. You know, those moments when you're diving into something new, and it feels like you're about to wrestle a grizzly bear while blindfolded. Yeah, that kind of scary.  

Uncertainty and unfamiliarity? They're like that annoying itch you can't scratch, making you squirm with discomfort. And let's be real, they often lead to dodging, feeling like a total fraud, and, worst of all, throwing in the towel.

I hate to break it to you, but growth isn't about cozying up in your comfort zone. Nope. It's out there, in the untamed wilderness, where the winds of uncertainty rage and the ground beneath your feet feels as unstable as a Jenga tower on a shaky table.  

But here's the twist: that's exactly where the good stuff happens. That's where you sharpen your mind, hone those badass skills, and a whole lot more.

Instead of running from discomfort, try embracing it like it's the best damn thing that ever happened to you. It's scary, sure, but it's also exhilarating. Because deep down, you know this is where the real adventure begins. It's where you confront your demons, face your fears, and come out the other side stronger, wiser, and ready to kick ass.

Jess's comment? Yeah, it stung like a slap in the face from a wet dishrag. But you know what? Sometimes, we need that jolt to kick us into gear.  

And here I am, standing at the edge of something new, feeling as vulnerable as a baby bird nudged out of its nest and as exposed as a streaker at the Super Bowl. I might stumble, eat dirt, and end up with a face full of mud.  

But guess what? That's okay because it’s all part of the journey. My story isn't about dodging faceplants — it's about taking the hits, dusting off, and jumping right back in. Again. And again. And you bet your boots, again after that.

So screw it, take the leap. Embrace the discomfort, lean into the chaos, and watch as you grow into the rock star you were always meant to be.

And that, my friend, is what being a badass is all about!